Long ago I decided to openly share my political leanings on my blog and business website.
Mainly because folks who disagree with the work I do are going to assume I’m a bleeding heart liberal (do people still say that?), or an “elitist”, or a Commie, or a Socialist, or whatever pejorative is au Courant. It’s simpler to be clear.
If you’ve worked with me as a coach, or participated in one of my workshops, you’ve heard some version of my core beliefs:
- We are all good people doing the best we can – and we can do better.
- Assume ignorance before malice.
- To know the good is to do the good.
- The common good is worth individual commitment.
These are beliefs that inform my thinking and my actions. The language may change depending on the audience, but the guiding principle is static.
Maybe its 6 weeks of isolation, or maybe its my over-dosing on the news, but I am struggling damn hard today to live my values.
The Covid-19 pandemic has intensified behaviors that once upon a time in our society would have been unthinkable. The one that’s getting to me today is the appropriation of the language of civil rights struggles to promote a fringe, anti-quarantine agenda.
It is twisted and cruel.
Some may call it framing or spin, but I fully believe “words create worlds” to paraphrase David Cooperider. So calling “Stay-at-home rules” a “Lockdown Order” makes space for all kinds of outrage and false equivalence.
Citizens unhappy about actions meant to protect the majority – to which they belong – are posturing as if their civil rights are being trampled. I want to know:
- Who is marginalized?
- Who is disenfranchised?
- Who is being sacrificed because “we” are more important than “them”?
There’s a big difference between believing you are marginalized or disenfranchised, and demonstrated evidence that you, in fact, historically and currently, have fewer rights and less power.
Anti-quarantine rallies have appropriated phrases like “My body, my choice” to support not wearing a mask. The same “choice” that they would withhold for a women’s personal reproduction decisions.
When I say “My body, my choice” I mean I will fight for everyone’s right to make their own reproductive decisions and I won’t interfere with your choice. Appropriated that phrase means “My choice will be your choice too.”
Anti-quarantine folks equate their “struggle against injustice” and loss of their liberty to shop, dine out, and watch sports, to Rosa Parks’ fight for integration and civil rights after slavery and Jim Crow.
Even though public safety is a common good, not evidence of oppression, anti-quarantine folks are falsely equating pandemic safety measures to actual genocide – to Hitler putting “Jews on trains”.
I support Free Speech because I value my rights enough to fight for your right to express your views even when I find them morally reprehensible. Like the statement about Hitler.
Today I can feel myself struggling to find my balance and grace in the face of the appropriated language and the many inflammatory, falsely equivalent headlines.
So I am reminding myself right now, out loud and in front of you, “I am a good person doing the best I can, and I know I can do better.”
I know we can all do better.